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writes:I'm 18 , 6'3" tall, 200 pounds, athletic and i easily attract girls but i have problem that has been worrying me for a long time, i fit in the stereotype of a man with a big d**k,see i'm black,im tall, i wear a size 14 shoe and i have freakingly large hands,8.5inch from the tip of my middle finger to be specific but unfortunatly my d**k is only 4inch erect,how come that happened?this must be a mistake or something and this is the reason i have not had sex since i realise i was small,it has not grown since i was 13. Would girls laugh at me?many of them think that i have a 8-10 inch. Is there a chance that it will grow?or is there anyway to make it bigger?and girls do would you chose an attractive physical appearance over a big penis size?.thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for taking your PRECIOUS time to aswer this question, seriously,it was very helpfull and Special thanks to Angziety
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): It aint the size of the ship,its the motion of the ocean.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): I have just started a relationship with a guy who has been a friend of mine for nearly five years. I always imagined him to have a big one, but it turns out it is not really. Yet because I love him and respect him (and lust him) this has not put me off in the least. You just have to use your imagination a little more and forget about inhibition. A small d**k is the passport to a more imaginative, more fulfilling relationship. Enjoy what you have!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): My opinion is huge penises are gross and they are difficult to do things with. You're a normal size I wouldn't worry about it to much.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (21 March 2011):
 The size of your hands and feet have nothing to do with the size of your penis. Every woman with some intelligence knows that, so you should not worry that women think you have a larger one. Smart women know that you can never tell on a guy what size his penis is. You just have to wait and see for yourself.
That said, a size of 4 inches is normal. The average penis is between 3.9 inches to 7.9 inches. You're in the lower end, but you are still normal, and there are plenty of guys out there with that size.
Again, smart women know this. It is not unheard of to have your size.
Next, women do not pick guys on looks or penis size. Women pick guys on personality. Looks come second. Penis size comes even further down the list. If you're great in bed then your penis size wont matter, and what makes a person great in bed is not a big penis. Nor is it experience with sex, although that might help. No, what makes a person great in bed is that they are eager to please their partner, listen to what their partner likes and wants, puts their partner first, and shows their partner that they love them and care for them.
Sure there will be some women out there who don't like your penis size. But there will also be some women out there who don't like your nose, or your feet. That person just isn't the one for you then, because there is still nothing wrong with you. They just weren't the right ones for you, because what you want to be looking for, just like women want, is a person who accepts you for who you are, and accepts all parts of you, physical traits as well as personality. Someone who loves you for who you are as a whole. A person who loves you for who you are as a whole will not think your penis is too small. A person who loves you will love your penis as well, and love being with you.
If at any time someone judges you, or puts you down, then they are not the right one for you.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (21 March 2011):
 Angziety, best answer I've ever read about this subject.
Some of my most boring sexual experiences were from guys with big penis'. Also yes! giving oral was a pleasure. God it was nice not to gag! And yes yes yes, talk about the repertoire.
Imagination is more important than a big head.
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