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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been with this guy for 8 months, his life appeared to be going the way i liked it to go for me to get involved, then i moved to be with him. He has kids and an ex that wont go away she is always emailing and texting him to say they need to get together to talk about the kids, not on the phone but get together, when they do talk on the phone about the kids it always turns into him being told how it is gonna go and her yelling at him, i am so sick of this and her controlling ways i am so confused and don't know what to do or think, this is the only issue that causes us to fight otherwise things are perfect. I am not trying to belittle him or anything i would just like him to stop the conflict with me and stand up to her and let him live his life without her dictating our life am i wrong about this???
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 November 2011):
 No you are not wrong. But if he is allowing her to do this well then it is his choice. You need to sit down with him and explain to him that this is going to end up causing the both of you to break up. You need to let him see how serious you are about it. He will still need to keep in contact with his ex due to the children, that much is obvious but what he does with his life should have nothing to do with his ex and you need to make that clear to him.
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