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My Girlfriend still lives with her ex and child, and now she's pregnant with mine!

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Question - (21 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Right....I need advice cause I don't feel I can talk to anyone else right now.

I am seeing a girl and have been for a month or so, she is still living with her ex who she split up with a month before we started seeing each other(she moves into her new place in a few weeks) who she currently has a child with. We haven't been careful enough and she is now pregnant and we cannot decide wether the best thing is to keep the child or not.

I cannot talk to my parents as I know they are both against abortion.

I think this would kill her ex if he found out and I don't want that as it could ruin her relationship with him and ultimately effect her child she has currently. She has said to me that whatever I decide she would pretty much go along with...

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A female reader, dmartin89 United Kingdom +, writes (22 March 2011):

dmartin89 agony auntWe can't tell you what to so as we are not intimately involved I'm the situation.

what you do need to do however is to have a proper conversation with her to weigh up your options and the concequences of each.

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