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I don't know if I'm in love with him or just obsessed?

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Question - (21 March 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay so, long story short, I'm obsessed with this guy I knew in high school. I was kind of a weird kid, but he was always nice to me. He always tried to include me in conversations and groups and stuff, and one time he even came and talked to me while I was crying. I've liked him since I've known him, and at one point, I was really in love with him. The thing is, I had to drop out of school last year because my social anxiety disorder had become so bad, I was going crazy. I had panic attacks and had started crying during school more than once. We didn't keep in touch after I left except for like, on facebook and even then we never really talked, but I still haven't been able to stop thinking about him. I don't know if I'm in love with him or just obsessed? I also really miss him and now that I'm starting to be less afraid of people or whatever, I really want to start talking to him again, it's just, I have a feeling he doesn't want to be associated with me anymore. When I left school I was really er...unpopular and messed up and my friend 'Anna' told me he's changed a lot and that he's kind of a douchey guy now. I don't know. I just really want to be his friend again, what do I do?

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