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writes:Last week me and my boyfriend of over a year had plans to hang out, just like we usually do but he ended up going out with his friends instead and didn’t contact me to let me know, which is understandable I guess because he doesn’t have a phone. This made me paranoid but because we went through the patch in our relationship a few months ago where he would always be unavailable to contact and would dog our plans for his mates and this was really hard for me. We hung out a couple of days ago and everything seemed perfectly normal, except last night I’m became paranoid and worried and just wanted to know everything was ok so we spoke about it, except it was over the internet which I now understand probably isn’t the best way to chat about these sorts of things. I told him how I have been feeling and he turned it around on me and said that lately I have always had a problem with what he is doing ‘going out with his friends’. I told him that I don’t and that I just don’t like how he ruins our plans and goes out and gets drunk with his friends instead and I told him how I’m worried things will change. Today he walked straight past me at school and hasn’t spoken to me, I can’t help but think that if I hadn’t of said anything that things would be fine between us, I’m just going to give him time and leave him be, but I don’t know what ill do with myself if this causes our relationship to end. how should i deal with this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): Perhaps it is partially a maturity issue with him, but regardless, I think you should spend your time with someone who puts you a little higher on their priority list.
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reader, addz +, writes (21 March 2011):
Seriously this guy is teenager of 21st century and doesn't have a mobile that's strange. Anyways if keeps braking plans all the time and wants to go party with the boys sounds like he isn't ready for a serious relationship. Ive had a relationship where the gf always wanted know where i was every minute of the day. If i wast at work It would be when was i coming around or what i was doing, so clingy it drove me insane. But in your case it sounds like you don't do that he just sounds like he is walking all over you. Just move on, Your young go have fun to.
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