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writes:Hey :)All Answers are appreciated. Well im 14 and i have decided that i want to wait till i am atleast 16 to have a proper relotionship as i want to be free while i still can. But lately things have been hard for me and alot of bad stuff has happened i have had to go to therapist sessions and just things have been bad. because of all this i have lost all my friends except one he is my one and only friend and i am just greatful that he has stuck by me. But admittly lately i have been really attracted to him and it is now verging on fancying him. but i know for a fact he would not go out with me as he has siad it to my face and also agrees with me that i am fat and ugly but it really doesnt bother me. But you see he keeps giving me mixed signals, he likes to play fight and admitly i do aswell but most the time i try to just leave him to it. But each time we play fight and tickle eachother we sort of keep getting closer and closer to eachother even though i try not to. He sometimes starts strokeing my hand i dont know if he realizes he does it. Or if we get into a wierd postion he is always the one who gets us into it and now he normanlyy stays there when a couple of months agao he would say 'This is wrong' and move. Im rather confussed i would go out with him if he asked me but abit of me just wants to wait when im 16 ? i cant ask him why he strokes my hand and stuff because i dont want to scare him away and make things arkward. should i just go along with it and flirt with him back ? or should i just pull away and not even bother getting into this fights ? We have also decided when we are 16 we are getting a flat together away from here, i know you might think 'aww teenage dreams' but we really are we are already saveing up the money. so what should i do ? go along with his flirty ways or just keep out of it ? and does he even realize he is doing it ??? All advie welcome :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for you advice :) i will give what you siad a try soo thanks :)
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reader, 15girl +, writes (21 March 2011):
 By the sound of it hes leadin you on, i think because you two have become so close flirting would just make it seem more comfortable to do so this is why he is flirting, stroking your hand is simply showing he likes you.
Also you said he says your fat..? that does not mean he wouldnt fancy you.. he probably does like you despite what he says as looks arnt everything, a great personality helps too.
Just flirt a little but not too much, see what he does and if he flirts flirt back, if he doesnt simple dont flirt back and see what happens goodluck hope i helped. :)
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