A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I've started to notice that the erections I wake up with are a good bit harder and more rigid than the ones I normally get while masturbating or getting involved with my girlfriend. While the latter variety are TOTALLY fine, there are no functionality issues at all, I wonder why there's such a change. I understand that Kegel exercises can improve erections, but if I can get a much harder one while sleeping, why can't I get that same level when I'm actually having sex? I have no performance anxiety, I'm fairly confident, I'm just curious as to why that is and what I can do to improve it. It's kind of life being able to bench 200 while awake and then 225 while asleep. Why can't I harness the potential when I'm awake?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (24 February 2011):
When guys wake up first thing in the morning that is usually when there erections are at the greatest. I guess it is just one of those things and you shouldnt worry about it. Everything sounds like it is in order and you have a good sex life therefore I wouldnt worry about it and just put it down to one of lifes many questions. Do some kegel exercises if you please, but honestly you dont have a problem.
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