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I'm a quiet, reserved person who attracts mainly military guys. Why??

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Question - (24 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Two questions in one - thought that would be more efficient :)

1.) I'm a quiet person in class; I keep to myself, don't talk much or join in class discussions. But I still get guys interested in me. I'm questioning this because I'm not "hot" or overly beautiful - I would say average/a little above average - I guess I'll add that I have some "assets" to my upper body too. Because I'm not that vocal (meaning I don't show much of my personality), does that mean these guys are only after one thing from me?

2.) Most of the guys interested in me turn out to be military guys. Why am I attracting military guys?? I don't feel I'm their type. I'm not a wild animal party girl, I'm more of a homebody, and from my 1st question you'll know I don't give off "I'm easy" vibes.

Thanks for looking through and providing me with feedback on these two things.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2011):

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Lucy Lee, I hope that's what they're seeing in me. If yes, I would actually be flattered.

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