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Do you think I should add him as a friend on Facebook?

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Question - (24 February 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2011)
A female Canada age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I developed a crush on this guy at school. He's a year older than me and I'm not sure if it would be alright that I add him as a friend on Facebook. The problem is, approximately a year ago, he added a few of my own friends because he thought they were "cute" yet he did not know them in person. We've made eye contact in the school hallways a few times but perhaps, I'm just a bit delusional? I commented on one of his friends' walls so that my profile would be visible to him. It's been a few weeks now and I keep checking whether he added me but still no luck! I'm unsure if I should risk the chance of adding him and end up looking "desperate". Do you think I should add him as a friend on Facebook?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (24 February 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntI'm on the fence about this..You don't want to risk looking rather desperate, and what if he's never noticed you before? On the other hand it could jump start something with the guy.

Add him, what's the harm in it? If he accepts the friend request then you can start getting to know him. Now, if he denies the friend request then he may not be interested. It can go either way, looks like you should take a risk.

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A female reader, Baily-Anne United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2011):

you should add him as a friend on Facebook, you never know he might think your cute too just scared to admit it,

just add him and if he accepts talk to him, you never know until you try!

lets us know how it all goes :D!

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A male reader, sobes4444 United States +, writes (24 February 2011):

sobes4444 agony auntadd him as a friend, its facebook, your not asking him on a date or anything

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