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writes:me and my girlfriend ahve been seeing eachother for a little over 6 months now and i recentley caught her in a lie the other night, there has been a huge fight and dsipute with me and a few of her friends regarding one of her friends, she had been saying lies and that i shouldnt be trusted because i have alot of girls who i talk to and are close friends, over 2 months had gone be in this time me and my girlfriend and another friend had choosen not to associate with this friend of ours and then recentley my girlfriend had told me she started talking to her for a while and that she wanted to try and fix things with this friend i said i would try to forgive her for what this girl has done and said to tear apart friendships and cause strain between me and my best friend who shes been with ever since this whole argument started, anyway so that was fine and dandy and i tryed but after i talked to her friend to try and work things out she informed me that she and my girlfriend had hung out and were trying to work things out and i was not aware of this, once i had found this out i called my girlfriend and asked her about if it was true that she hung out with this girl and my friend to try and work things out and why she didnt tell me, she immediately said no i did not hang out with her our your friend that night and i said well if i were to call my friend since we have been best friends for over 12 years now and i know he woudlnt lie to me about somthing as simple as that, she then said that yes they did hang out i said why wouldnt you tell me the truth and she said i dont knwo i thaught you might be upset because you dont like the girl at all that i was trying to work things out with, i immediately said i need time to think about if im going to be able to rebuild this trust and start over with you again because you should have lied to me, it made me wonder several things if she has ever lied to me befor or if she thinks i really would get upset if she told me the truth about this, regardless i dont appreciate lying especially when its right to my face, i do love this girl with all my heart, and i would like viewers opinions and thaughts on my next move and if i were to stay how me and my girlfriend could fix this.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (24 February 2011):
 Walk away from this relationship, and into a school. Talk to someone in the main office about taking a writing class. There you can learn about sentences, punctuation, spelling, grammar, and all the other things that will help you portray your thoughts in a written form.
Once that's done, you can come back here and post your question again in a way that people will understand.
I couldn't fully decode that jibberish, but what I think your problem is that your girlfriend is working to sort things out with someone you don't like (who possibly tried to bad mouth you to your GF). She lied to you about it. Now you're wondering what you should do.
She lied because you're trying to control her life, and she knew you wouldn't like her talking to this person. That doesn't make it right though. Really, you don't trust her, or you wouldn't be so controlling. She doesn't trust you either, or she would have been able to tell you the truth. Without trust, a relationship cannot survive.
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reader, df30 +, writes (24 February 2011):
That is the longest sentence I have have ever read
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (24 February 2011):
English isn't my first language. Maybe I'm not the person to tell you this, but.I'm sorry, your text is impossible to understand. It lacks of sentences and you talk about a lot of people and call them all "friend" so there is no way to know whom you talk about. I can tell your keyboard's period key works because you used it at the end.
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