A
female
age
26-29,
*jroller14
writes:My BF and I have been dating for 7 weeks today(2/24/11). And he has decided to tell me all the secrets he has been keeping from me......some of them I'm not very comfortable with but I still love him!Now that he has told me his secrets, I feel a little guilty for keeping mine. I want to tell him, but I just can't work up the courage to......I'm afraid he'll be mad at me for them.Then he was telling he was confused and doesn't know what to do anymore...he wants to hurt him self but i don't like seeing him in pain.......I don't know what to do now.I keep wondering if I tell him my secrets will it affect his decision good or badly. Should I tell him?????!!!???? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (24 February 2011):
 No don't tell him all your secrets, especially if they don't apply to him. There are some secrets that are better off left as secrets.
Besides, telling him some secrets might cause more issues in your relationship, when there is already enough to handle.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2011): No don't tell him all your secrets. I'm with my girl 5 years I still have some things I keep private.
Tell him some things but only tell him things you wouldn't mind him knowing if you were to break up tomorrow. Don't assume this will last forever, I know it feels so perfect right now but always be cautious.
Don't find out the hard way what happens when you've told someone everything only to suddenly find yourself in the middle of a really bad break up with them. Be smart.
Secrets are like sex, you always have to stay cautious and protect yourself because yo might end up with something you hadn't counted on.
...............................
A
female
reader, Sjroller14 +, writes (24 February 2011):
Sjroller14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question No...its secrets like how he is very emotional...and what he has done in the past.
I have secrets like i use to cut myslelf
...............................
A
female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 February 2011):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-friend-and-my-boyfriend-are-messaging-each.html
So is one of his secrets the fact that he wants to date your friend?
No offense, but I really think schools don't assign enough homework anymore.
...............................
|
