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writes:Why do I have no self control when it comes to my ex?We broke up over a year ago and I am still casually sleeping with him. I can't stop thinking about him as I'm deeply in love with him.He on the other hand wants to be single but also has no control with me when it comes to sex. I dont understand his feelings towards me. He invites me to places, gets cut when I hook up with other guys, yet only likes me "as a friend".I've tried cutting him out of my life numerous of times but it never works. I just want him to like me how he did a year ago.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for The advice, I really appreciate it. It's going to be tough but hopefully by me not giving into his sex he will start to realise what he has lost.
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reader, shawncaff +, writes (24 February 2011):
 He is confused as to what he wants. Being in a relationship with him now--and you ARE in a relationship with him, whether you are exclusive bf/gf's or not--will continue to hurt you and hold you back from moving on in your life.
Of course, you have feelings for him: you are still intimate with him. For most people (particularly for women), sex is an emotional experience that will draw you emotionally together.
You broke up for a reason. He is not interested in dating you but still wants your sex and attention. You know what you have to do: stop sleeping with him and block him from your life, this time for good. Now, you just need the self-discipline to do it.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 February 2011):
 You're still in love, but I'm not sure he is.
Your situation is very difficult. He is still "sorta", "kinda" giving you what you want, yet he doesn't. And you're waiting for him to come back in full, yet he doesn't, yet he doesn't go.
You have to sit down and think long and hard whether this is what you want.
All the best.
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