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writes:So, a while back this guy added me on Facebook. He graduated the same high school I'm attending, so he's 3 years older than me(I'm 17, he's almost 20). We started talking and he really seemed into me and even told me so. We would Skype often, and when we did it was for hours. He told me he thought I was very down to earth and cute, and I told him the same. After about 2 weeks of talking, we finally had a date. We went to dinner then to see "No Strings Attached" (Which was probably a bad idea for a first date) It was a bit awkward. I think since we spent so much time talking online, we didn't really know what to say face to face. He drove me home, and there was an extremely awkward goodbye hug. He said hi to me the next day on facebook, but I didn't see the im. I didn't reply in time so I sent him a text saying I got his message, but my phone acts funny sometimes and that's why I didn't get it. He never responded, and now he just ignores me. I also sent him a "Happy Valentines Day" text, and STILL no reply. Why could he be ignoring me? We couldn't at least stay friends?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAs sad as it is, I think I knew this. Thanks for your answer. :)
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reader, sha9991  +, writes (24 February 2011):
Hi,When you go on a first date with someone,it's very important,cuz that's when both of you make a decision,if you have any common ground or chemisty together,and if you do,it's best to wait for the guy to ask for a second date,or if he doesn't think so,you won't hear from him!If you are happy with friendship then sent him a message asking,if he would be happy to just say just friends? The worst then can happen is for him to say no,which I shouldn't think cuz he hasn't deleted you from Facebook! I hope I have helped? All the best! :)
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 February 2011):
 He's not that into you. Sorry. If he was into you, he wouldn't be ignoring you. Perhaps it's your age, or perhaps it's the awkward date. Either way, it's best if you just consider this over. Let him reach out if he wants to try and mend this one.
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