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writes:I am currently engaged and still studying, which means I don’t have much time to work. Money for us is quite tight between paying for our house and other expenses. My fiance had lunch with a man who we have known for a little while and brought up our financial issues. He then suggested a dinner at their house, which we went to the next week. He is married and both him and his wife are 36 years old, very wealthy, with a beautiful house. Anyhow, after dinner the conversation switched to our financial issues and he basically asked if I would consider coming around to their house for him and his wife to have sex with. The moment this was suggested, my fiance grew quite angry and stormed out with me.His wife rang me a couple days later to say sorry and ended up giving me their offer. Her husband was willing to pay 1500 dollars for sex with me including blow jobs beforehand, and 2000 for a threesome. They will pay 500 for me to come over and serve them their dinner in only panties and 500 if the wife wants to do me with a strap on dildo. We are falling behind on our payments and are both working as much as possible, I am considering serving them dinner and letting the wife use a strap on dildo on me. Should I do it?
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (26 February 2011):
 Having a threesome with a married couple when your bf doesn't approve of it is dicey enough.
Getting paid to do it would haunt you for the rest of your life and most likely destroy your self esteem.
I vote don't do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2011): I forgot to add, one more thing you need to consider.You do this, get whatever you get, let's say 1500 bucks, and strangely your bf is ok with it, and you go on get married and finish your educations and settle down and have a nice house and kids and are happy, except you have to use drugs or alcohol (prescription or otherwise) in order to deal with your past memories.Then, the same folks who videotaped you (which you didn't know) show up and offer to sell you the original disc/hard drive, etc, for 1500 bucks. If you don't, they will give it to a friend of theirs who likes watching it...with other people...who will make copies for his friends as well. You pay, then you have to do it again, again, and again, just to keep your kids from finding out that you were a prostitute.Or, you get rejected for a job with the government because of this history.Or, imagine this, a whole room full of people watching you get "done" by these two people, and all of them laughing as they tell and hear how they did it and what little it cost them.A friend of mine was videotaped when she was an older child, naked, doing a strip tease, which she had been encouraged to do by another girl a little older than her "for fun". Then, not much later, she got to watch in horror as a room full of adults sat drinking and stoned while they watched her take her clothes off on the TV. How many years of counseling, and how many thousands of dollars in medical bills and counseling bills, do you think it took her to get over that?
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reader, Jackalus  +, writes (26 February 2011):
No no no no no no no no no no no no no no no, this should never have gotten this far. Don't do any of it. This will lead to other people wanting, no other way to put it, you to prostitute and your relationship will break down, could possibly end! Don't do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): Declaring bankruptcy is a lot cheaper and better than going into prostitution.
If you want to do this sort of thing, you shouldn't do it for money, if fucks you up either way.
But, the only proper word for it is "prostitution".
Which, I might add, is illegal in a lot of places, you can be blackmailed, etc...and end up on the internet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): I say go for it. I am a crossdresser and my wife has set me up with a few men all of whom were looking for oral sex which I provided for them. I have no regrets.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): Sadly I have some experience with this kind of transactions. So first of all. This could turn out very bad an it could destroy your relationship and you might regred it whole life. So please don't do it unless you absolutely need the money. Second of all, that money its not worth it at all. If you added like a zero to everything then maybe. They can easily decide to not give you the money. Someone might find out about it and belive me you can't imagine the humiliation. And you didn't say what is you boyfriend is thinking about you doing it. That money is not worth this.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (25 February 2011):
 It does not sound like a great idea. Let's totally overlook the moral implications, every woman is different, some would feel guilty or disgusted or uncomfortable selling their body , some would not.
But- in practice. If your bf got angry and stormed out, obviously he does not like the idea. Would he like it better if you'd go on your own ? would he be ok with what you want to do ? I doubt it. You'd have to hide what you did from him. What if he finds out ? and, are you ok with the idea of going behind his back and keeping a secret with him for the rest of your life... Also, that should be a one time deal. What if they want more ? They could blackmail you into dong stuff by threatening to tell your bf what you did.
It sounds to me like too much risk and stress and tension for the sake of putting together a few bucks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): No !.please dont degrade yourself like that.i know you are having problems but thats not the way to sort it.if they were good friends,they would just give you the money anyway out of the goodness of their hearts.why do you have to have sex with them ?.it sounds really dodgy to me.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (25 February 2011):
 I'm sure the financial pressures you two are facing are oppressive. You're not the first couple to be in that situation, being in school and having bills to pay.
You've been offered what's presented as a financial opportunity. They're telling you that you can select from a menu --- do this for $x, reveal this for $y, perform this for $z. You fiancé walked out at the very suggestion, so it's rather safe to assume he's not on board with the idea.
I would imagine that you think you can select from the menu, choose how far you care to go (not very), and walk away with a couple of hundred dollars. I rather doubt that that's the case. I suspect that you'll be pressured, strongly, to go further. And in any event, anything you do that they give you money for will mean that you've effectively prostituted yourself. Which, I suspect, your guy can't live with, which is why he stormed out in the first place.
It's your body, your choice. If you feel the money pressure is such that this is an attractive offer, then fair game. But know that you'll end up on the internet, and that your guy probably won't be able to handle it. The other choice is to be poor and in love and cope with making a life together like your parents did. Just saying ....
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