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writes:My boyfriend and I,We are 17,we've been together since 2008,We are so in Love with each others, But there are so many problems, that might not make us stay together, for example: I am from Jordan, and hes from a diffrent country .. my parents always say, that they will only allow me to marry a guy from Jordan, Same as me. im scared that this thing might come between us. and that my family doesnt believe in Love and these things. =[ We are living in the same country, But in June, i have to go back to Jordan and stay there forever.. We have been in long distance relationship for 9 months, and it worked, and we are happy together, no problems no nothing.. Im really scared that things might get between us, From my family side, and from the very long distance that is gonna be between us.. Anyy help? Thanks a lot, For reading.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 February 2011):
 Ok well you are only 17 therefore you shouldnt be worrying at the moment about marriage. Instead just take things as they come, if it comes to it that you are still with your boyfriend in years to come then you can start wondering how to deal with your family. But for now dont worry about it and just live your life as it comes. Just because your family dont believe in love doesnt mean that you need to feel the same way. If this boy makes you happy then stay with him. Ok so a long distance relationship at your age is a lot to take on because they are really difficult. but if the both of you work hard on it then hopefully you will make it through. Talk to him about your fears for the long distance and make arrangements so that you can both meet up every now and then. Goodluck.
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