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*hortone1
writes:ive been married for almost two years and we have been together 4 years. we have a daughter together he wants more i dont right NOW. IM 22 hes 38. we dont get along anymore and have different wants and needs! we have grew apart! I dont have a job or money,but been wanting to leave for like ever. in fact he even says that where not together,but divorce hasnt happened in fact we got married in las vegas through a drive through.!! lol.should i just leave with my daughter.? what should i do? i have places to go. people and family to help me. i am outgoing and young and want something more then stress from this man. ive already wasted away a good part of my life for this man and I wish i could turn back time,but cant. hes taken away my happiness in life and is jealous of me getting anywhere in life itself.! please give me advice on what to do!! Fast because im about to leave asap.hes never treated me like a diamond, but treated me like crap never has given me a homemade card or nothing for no holiday what so ever!
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reader, emochick27 +, writes (24 February 2011):
 Well the best way too do it is just sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel that way hopefully you can remain civil and possibly be friends later on down the road, but don't let him talk you out of it if your sure. It's tough since you have a kid together, but do what's right for you. And if you have any concern he may get violent or crazy especially because you have a kid together then make sure you have this conversation in a public place or with someone nearby within hearing distance to make sure your okay. Good luck I hope everything goes smoothly and hopefully it's a clean break.
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reader, shortone1 +, writes (24 February 2011):
shortone1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thats so much making it clear. now how do i go about leaving!!???? what should i say?? should i sit down with him and talk things over to leave upon good standings, its easier said then done so i need some more help on leaving??but your answers where perfect i just need more advice!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2011): I agree with the others. You should leave, now is the time to do it, now is your chance. If you wait any longer, lets say a few years it will get harder to leave, please believe me on this one.
I wish you the same as Luce Lee, I hope you have a lovely life.
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reader, emochick27 +, writes (24 February 2011):
You should leave you two are in different places right now and you have a support system that can help you. It sounds like you are miserable by staying and it will just make things worse in the long run.
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reader, The13th_Floor  +, writes (24 February 2011):
The choice is clear, leave..
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