A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Alright, so my friend and I (not particularly close friends) started hooking up right before break ended. I always have had a tiny crush on him, and one thing led to the other and somehow he started to like me. I left, and he kept in contact with me. He was really nice and would text me, etc. He said how he wanted to come out to where I was, or that I was there with him. None of this way in an overtly romantic way, just in a cute way. I never voiced this, I never particularly said I missed him. But I do. I think about him at least once a day. He initiates most of the conversation. Before, I was riding on the coattails of things we had talked about before. But now that its been over a month, Im starting to psych myself out that Im drifting from him. Its actually a little overwhelming - I will think of things to say to him and go out of my way to find something interesting to tell him about. This makes everything seem forced and I can tell its not the same. I'll see him in a little over 3 weeks, which isnt bad. But I really dont know what its going to be like. I feel like Im going to be so nervous when I see him I will mess things up. Im not much of a people person, so its surprising Id rather hang out with him in person. I just dont know if its a bad idea to expect to hook up again, or I should expect that? I have a feeling at one point he wanted that, but I didnt show any interest so he gave up. I dont know.
View related questions:
crush, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 February 2011):
 Well you need to think about this long and hard. Realistically do you both have any chance of having a future together? If it is just a hook up you want with him well then that is your choice and if its what you want go for it. Dont expect to much when you see him just be yourself and see what happens. There is no point putting any pressure on yourself as this is when people do tend to mess up because they have burdened themselves with un nessesary worries. Just be yourself and be friendly and see what happens!
|
