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writes:im 15, get good grades, live in a good home but am not very close to my parents. i go to a vocational school and take an automotive shop. ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months, and we lost our virginity to eachother. the condom didnt work, and i found out im about a month pregnant. my boyfriends 17 and we have talked about the baby and we agree to take care of it together. how do i tell my parents? is there patient confidenciality laws to help me in massachusetts? would we be able to get an apartment? what kind of medicle care do i need and what does it involve? im clueless! please help me!!!!!
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reader, princesslawwi  +, writes (27 February 2011):
 ive been pregnant before when i was fourteen and im now 15 , i live with my nan so it wasnt so hard , we sat down on our ownand had a little chat , you think parents are going to go crazy but i'll tell you , they are more understanding than we actually think , just make sure you tell the parent you get along with more , just be calm its the best way :)
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reader, maddiee-maii +, writes (25 February 2011):
I've been there, so I can say the following. Once you tell your parents, it will get easier. Here is how I did it... I wrote it in a letter:Mam, I know you will be disappointed, I am disappointed of myself. But I am pregnant.. I left it on the bench and went up to my room.... you could do this and go to school or to your boyfriend's house.I heard my mam come through the door.. and about half an hour later I got a knock on my door. She shouted for about 10 mins then we just cried. Honestly, we are now closer than anything.
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reader, Baily-Anne +, writes (24 February 2011):
i was in exactly the same situation about 4 months ago i found out i was pregnant, i told my parents at first they werent very understanding and they were very disapointed in me but, there wasn't anything they could do about it so they started to understand and helped me through it.
i told my parents with my boyfriend being there. i needed support when i told them because i wasnt that close to my parents.
you should go and see a doctor, they have to keep it confidential, if your scared i'm sure a friend will come along with you!
good luck, just tell your parents straight and let me know how it goes!:) xxx
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reader, shortone1 +, writes (24 February 2011):
 girl, its hard being a mommy. i have one and that all i refuse to have more. men say theyll take care of the baby but they dont,but he might be different!! ihope you luck. and i dont know if you want to tell ur parents yet. they will freak out,but u will show soon enough as time passes so they will notice something different about you! im sorry to hear your so young and going to be a mommy. it will be hard but if you work hard b4 the baby comes you can get an apartment. check out some state benifits i know in my state they have department of social and health services. but not sure about mass. any how check into WIC too. if you r positivly going to keep the baby take parenting classes if possible it will help. eventually tell ur parents, ask them if you can sit down with them with ur bf too of course and tell them what you want to do and how you plan on doing give them faith in you. and have faith in your self. children are blessings from god.!! i hoped i could help you out.
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reader, malibooty1 +, writes (24 February 2011):
Well you need to see a doctor because you need prenatal vitamins for the baby. You should just come out and tell your mom becase you will have to tell her eventually and she will be able to help you see a doctor and care for yourself.
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reader, DeeLicious +, writes (24 February 2011):
Ohkkay Hun(: ,I say you tell your parents , gotta tell them sooner or later an im pretty sure they will be shocked at first buhh they have too understand. If so they arent very supportive go to an aunt or somebody close that can help out with the baby. Hope everything works out(:
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