A
male
age
30-35,
*rico
writes:I am a cute guy who's who got no girlfriend until i travel to another town to continue my education but I'll be with my uncle for a while in his factory where I work. In his factory speculates no relationship of opposite sex is allowed. I've been there for over a year now but I haven't ask a girl for a date for there are many girls there and am not use to that and is like nothing to me. Recently there is a new employee a girl who came in new we are from same hometown. At first I found her as a rude person who insults a lot and she is older than me by 2 years. My uncle introduced me to her as his relative, that is we are all from the same hometown. I started getting acquainted with her. She usually likes discussing issues of relationship and dating issues telling me about her boyfriends though interesting that I got fond of listening to her stories. She then started preparing food for me without me giving her anything in return. Anytime we sat together she usually touches my face, chin, tickling me too ceaselessly and nervously, telling everybody that am her boyfriend. Sometimes she gave me kisses surprising to me. Tells me all her secrets. Usually she loves talking of sexual issues. She told me she isn't a virgin but I am. She couldn't believe it but later she believed. She prepared food for me ceaselessly it's hard she ask something from me but usually when she asked I don't give her enough she doesn't complain. Anytime she wants to go out or stay out she calls me on phone and help me do some of my duties. We haven't yet had a sexual relationship since we have been together. Though she usually ask some funny questions that if we go together in a quiet area whether i wont make love to her. I do also find it funny. She just like touching me but I do often pretend. There came a day when the receptionist passed by when I was with that girl as usual and never spoke a word. She called and said that I was called by one of my uncles knowing she reported me to him that am going contrary to the rules of the factory. I was warned seriously to stay clear off her. She found out and became angry with every one around her. The next day I said hi to her she didn't respond but she looked me without altering a word. No more phone calls as usual. A day came that she called me and told me that she was trying to convey their mind that there was nothing going on between us. Even if her friends ask her that if I am her boyfriend she would refuse to have anything to do with me. And she once told that she will come visiting me in school if go back to school. All I want to know is whether she loves me truly and why she is doing all she is doing now? And how am going to go on about it? Reply to this Question
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reader, inhibited  +, writes (26 April 2011):
 She seems like a bit of an attention seeker. I do not think she really loves you she just sounds young and sexually adventureous. People who are in love seldom act as she has acted.
I would suggest you respect your uncles wishes, he was good enough to give you the job. The right woman will come along for you before long.
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