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writes:I do not have any idea how to title this question. I am 31 and my husband is 32. We were at some friends' house recently. He came to me and asked to come with him. We went into a bedroom and he closed and locked the door. He said to me to get my blouse and my bra off. I was surprised to say the least, but complied. He spent a few seconds fondling my boobs, got hard, and then went into the bathroom and shot in their toilet. On the way home, I asked him, What was THAT? To which, he would not answer. I don't know how to compartmentalize this. Is this a common thing for men to do?
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 Opps...bedroom? More space, more comfortable, but more chance you'll get caught or leave evidence.
It's bad manners to use someone's bedroom without asking first.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (13 April 2011):
Damn... hahaha.. this is a popular question...
mmmm.... You have a very interesting husband. He is kind and respectful and thinks a lot about your well being.
mmmmm.... I think he wanted to be close to you, but then when he got too close he felt your beautiful fire burn him.
Be glad he's so respectful, full sex in the bathroom is painful, cramped and highly embarrassing even if you don't get caught.
PS: Don't forget to thank him and repay the favor one day.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (13 April 2011):
 I'm guessing he was turned on but didn't have the time or privacy to actually have sex with you. Can't think of anything else, really - I've helped out guys that way often, generally it would have made more sense for him to ask you to join him and give him a handjob in the bathroom, but maybe that's not something you guys do.
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reader, Iykeiscool  +, writes (13 April 2011):
I realise u were hurt by the action of your husband. You have a right to be, u feel used abused and unloved. I think u should talk to him and work things out to keep balance in ur relationship, peace and love. God bless
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (13 April 2011):
 Maybe he just didn't want to have sex in his friend's house? That's a little weird but everyone gets weird at times. I can't tell you the number of "Huh?" looks I've gotten from my boyfriend for all my weird idiosyncrasies.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (12 April 2011):
 It sounds like he was clearly horny and just " had to" get off. He tried first with you, but you were sensible enough to not have sex in someone else's house so..left "frustruated" he did what he knew best. I would just laugh it off and let it be...........no big deal, he showed you respect and then no pun intended, took maters into his own hands,lol
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reader, little_3_eyes +, writes (12 April 2011):
 Just be glad he didn't come all over you, that would have been hard to explain at the party.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (12 April 2011):
 That it is quite odd. Must have been just a random urge of his. I have randomly done stuff quickly with my gf but never that. Everyone has little weird things that they will do now and then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): He should be able to tell you what that was all about. Be careful not to sound judgemental about it or treat him like he is a weirdo. that is unusual, but maybe he has some fantasy or was having trouble controlling himself at the moment, who knows, but he should be able to talk to you openly about this, especially if he is open enough to ask you to be fondled so he can go take care of it himself in your friend's bathroom.
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reader, DrDivine +, writes (12 April 2011):
Hmmmm strange! My first thought is perhaps he had this idea to get sexual with you at your friends house – the thrill of doing something somewhere you shouldn’t, but then he chickened out and was worried about being discovered but perhaps was too horny and had to relieve that tension as quickly and as quietly as possible. It’s a bit weird that he wouldn’t talk about it – maybe he was embarrassed. Perhaps you should try asking again.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 April 2011):
 I'd just chalk it up to one of the many weird things guys do. I wish I had a nickel for each one. Just be glad it was your boobs he was fondling and let it go.
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reader, catcher00 +, writes (12 April 2011):
Um....okay? Something must've happened to get him REALLY horny, the type of hard-throbbing-impossible-to-ignore surge of sexual energy, but felt weird having sex in his friend's house. SO he did the next best thing that would relieve the tension w/out crossing some weird line he has in his mind.
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reader, wiseoldman +, writes (12 April 2011):
You know, for once in a long and happily sordid life I haven't the slightest idea. Maybe the thought of copping a feel in a strange house got him going, or maybe he briefly fiddled with a girl in a bedroom at a party when he was in high school, couldn't bonk her then and there, and relieved himself in the bathroom while reliving the whole naughty thing, then repeated it with you years later to bring back the feeling, I don't know. Did he at least ravish you when you both got home?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): Ya well he was horny. I don't know every guy is different I guess. It is surprising that he is your husband and you still don't know his sexual tendencies.
No I don't find this weird. The other day I was in bed and my boyfriend tried to have sex with me but I was so tired I stayed sleeping. He ended up jerking off right there next to me. Men do stuff like that, I mean like when they are in a relationship or married. It is not weird. You should explore that side with him and enjoy it. Might add a little spice and a new angle to the relationship. Always good to keep things interesting.
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