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writes:Hello right, could you please help me I'm a 13 year old girl and I have the biggest ever crush on my 40 year old teacher and I know nothing will ever happen because there is a 27 year age difference and he is married and his wife resently had a baby. This teacher knows that I fancy him and so does like everyone at school but he always stares at me and starts talking to me I get some idea that he likes me but no joke I'm obsessed with this teacher I write and talk about him all the time. Anyway so he knows I love him abut do you think I should tell him my self? And what can I do to give him clues that I really like him? Please don't tell me to forget about him and move on because I can't. I've loved him for nearly 3 years now. Thanks. Please help me out. He means the world to me. He also flirts with me . Please help me what should I do? Thanks xxxx
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reader, lonelygirl11 +, writes (19 April 2011):
I truely understand how you are feelin i still feel the same about my teacher he means the world and more to me i never told him how i felt. I have tried my best to forget him and move on but its impossible to do even after all this time. Id recommend you not to tell him as he will only reject you and you will feel million times worse. Just dont let it get to stage im at as its unbearable and agnony.
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reader, love is in the air +, writes (15 April 2011):
Hello batterytea I wrote this question I've made an acount though if you could privet message me I would be very greatful thanks :) also thank you for both of your answers xxx
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reader, Batterytea  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 Hey girl. You sound exactly like how I was a month ago!!No joke. I was totally madly in love with my math teacher and I was so obsessed I visited him in his room after school almost everyday. Up until a month ago, I was in this same obsessive crush for about 2 years and a bit more.I knew never to tell him, and I was right to. You shouldn't either, and I'm serious. You already know no good will come out of telling him, it'll only serve to make things weird and awkward between you two. Better to never tell him so you can still talk to him without the awkwardness. Think about it.Anyways, so everyone that knew about my crush kept telling me "oh just stop!!" but yeah, like you said, it's impossible to just stop liking someone. I always thought I'd never stop liking him either. But listen, I stopped liking my teacher a month ago!! After over 2 years!! One day I just suddenly stopped thinking he was amazing, and Iunno why. At first I tried to convince myself it was just a small while and I'd go back to liking him again, but no, it really is gone for good. I kinda miss the days when I liked him 'cause they were very puppy love-ish and fun, but yeah, I can't control what happens to my feelings.So, that's all I can offer. The feelings actually WILL pass, even if you're madly madly madly in passionate love with him. Unfortunately it does pass.
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