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male
age
30-35,
*annn
writes:So my girlfriend broke up with me a month ago and left me for another man.. It was all very unexpected and has really been a huge blow, losing your best friend and lover is the pits. Anyways since then I've been depressed but have been trying to get back on the horse, (exercising, going out with friends, and doing things that I enjoy doing) while going out to the bar I ended up going home with someone. We had drunk sex (never good first time) since then we've gone on several dates but when things get hot and heavy in the bedroom I cum fairly quickly and can't get another erection. This is NOT regular for me. In fact these two instances are the first in my life where this has happened. Usually I'm great in bed, sure sometimes I cum quickly but either I just keep going or round two picks up 5 minutes afterwards and I'm amazing... (not just saying that either, I have a reputation)Soo I'm at a loss of what could be the issue, this is the first time I've had to use condoms in roughly a year, I'm still fairly down about the breakup, my sex drive isn't what it used to be a month ago, perhaps just not comfortable with a new lady, confidence is in the dumps?Those are my guesses.. I tried not touching myself for a week but still happened, might try the opposite now. Anyone have ideas on what it might be or how I could amend this horrible issue?
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reader, sobes4444  +, writes (9 May 2011):
 Well, here are my instructions, the reason I can last up to 40 mins is because you need to
A. Start taking deep deep breathes and relax, even meditate for a while each day
B. When you have sex just think that you're the tits of the operations (You're badass) that's how I make it through
Seriously...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): Stop drinking. That kills your body in every way physically and is also a depressant mentally. Remove it and hopefully things will be better for you.
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