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writes:i having a dilemma right now.. i am so confused.. i have 2 guys in my life.. one is that, he loves me so much, for me he is perfect, i am always happy everytime i talk to him,he shower me compliments and i love him so much even if i didnt meet him in person yet.. but everytime i need help from him especially fiancial help, he doesnt help me..he is acting like he doesnt hear me..one the second guy, he loves me so much.. we met in person already, but i never feel like what i have with the other guy but everytime i need help from him even how hard it is he do everything just to take away my stress.. he send me money if i need it so bad... the question here is that, if you are in my shoe.. whom you gonna choose? Hope you people can help me with this..
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (12 April 2011):
 Why are you asking these guys for financial help? Do you pay them back?
Shouldn't you be getting a job or asking your parents to borrow $ if you need it, not guys who aren't even your boyfriend?
If I were you, I would first stop being financially dependent on these men. It's time to be independent and stand on your own two feet. Unless you're looking for a sugar daddy. In which I would choose the second guy. If you're choosing based off of your emotions, then you should choose the first guy.
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