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writes:Ok, so at the beginning of the school year I didn't like him that much I just thought he was kinda cute so I thought I would get over it but then he started flirting with me! He started staring at me, smiling at me, and he just treated me differently than everybody else. I kinda liked it at first and then I heard that he got married to this woman who is 47 and he is 28 so I tried to forget about him. This didn't work out so well, he is still flirting and the more he flirts, the more I like him!! The main thing that worrys me is that he had gotten another girl who is my age pregnant before!!!! So I know I need to get over him!!! Please help!!!! :( :( :(
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reader, Kit-Kat  +, writes (15 April 2011):
Stay away from this creep. You know deep in your heart he is a bad guy, and although you are flattered by the attention he gives you, you are a sensible and smart girl who knows and deserves better. Never be alone with him, even in the classroom. I know it might be difficult, but if he ever tries to touch you or even suggest something, report him immediately. I'm surprised he hasnt been suspended for the pregnancy...
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reader, swordandredrose +, writes (13 April 2011):
What? He has gotten another girl pregnant? A girl YOUR age???
Ok, seriously need to stay AWAY form this person!
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reader, MilkPudding  +, writes (12 April 2011):
Omg, you like your teacher?!!! I can't even imagine!!! Get over it, quickly, it's not appropriate. Fairytales don't exist in today's world, my dear girl, it's time to wake up. Listen. Cock-a-doodle-doo, its morning, wakey!
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (12 April 2011):
 Urgh, I feel disgusted that men like this exist!
Hes a peodophile, stay away from him unless you want to end up in trouble too.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (12 April 2011):
 He's married, he's flirting, if it goes any further tell someone.
As for getting someone pregnant, was he the same age at the time?
Don't spread rumors, if in doubt ask your parents or a friend or a cop for that matter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): Okay, let me get the facts to the forefront. You are 13 - 15, he is 28. This 28 year old teacher is married to a woman that is almost 20 years older than himself but has previously gotten a girl your age pregnant? Let's assume the bit about him getting a girl your age pregnant is actually true; I take leave to doubt this due to the fact that he is still a teacher. Well, aside from being a PEDOPHILE this man has some serious psychological issues. If indeed this man is flirting with you then you need to tell a trusted adult about this so that this type of inappropriate behavior can stop. It is not normal behavior for man to marry a woman 20 years older than himself and it is definately not normal for a 28 year old man to flirt or make a pass at a 13 - 15 year old girl.
Now, with that being said, let's assume that you are misinterpreting signals from him or making something out of nothing. You have to realize that he is your teacher, not a boy in your class. I realize that girls in school crush on some of their male teachers; I haven't forgotten overhearing girls talk about stuff like that but you have to just forget about it and find one your own age. When you turn 18, if you want to experiement with older men, at that point your legally authorized to do so though I would advise extreme emotional caution.
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reader, themagentskie +, writes (12 April 2011):
 P e d o p h i l e .
Save yourself a broken heart and move your direction towards someone around your age group who's single.
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