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writes:So all year I have been looking forward to this baseball game against our school rivals, and I'm pretty excited to play, but just last week i injure my arm and I need to be out for a couple games. That's only the start, and where it connects to my relationship. My girlfriend is currently taking a class that requires alot of her time (we both go to private schools, one all guys one all girls btw). Up until now I've been pretty tolerant of this, giving her the time she needs and even helping her study. Recently however, she's been getting a little ridiculous with the amount of time she seemingly devotes to avoid me. In the year and a half we've been dating, I've made sure she knows that I hate one word texts, yet recently she's sending them all the time, and either sleeping or wasting her time on stumbleupon while she's not doing work. This is frustrating cause I've seen her for about an hour in the past month, when i know she has had more time (spent on stumbleupon). In addition, she's been to exactly 0 of my games of my first season as a starter. I tried talking to her about this, but she got upset cause i was "guilting" her into spending more time with me. but back to baseball. I was with her, just sitting around cause i cant do anything with my injury, when she informs me that she wont be able to make it to the game on my birthday next month. so that sucked. just now she gets all excited about going to wednesdays game against our rivals with her friend. the game that im injured for, the game that doesnt matter at all to me any more, is the one game she decides to go to. I can skip the game, and im really offended that shes doing this to me, but i dont know what to do!Sorry for making you read so much!
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (12 April 2011):
 I think you should stumble upon another chick.
WHooo...she's so far in left field, I think she jumped the fence.
Take care dude, your young, lots out there, lots to get involved with.
This is just a fumble stumble. LOL
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reader, livelaughlove23 +, writes (12 April 2011):
School can be stressful and when one's focusing on their grades, like one should, it can be time consuming, as well. Don't take it personal.
I'm not trying to be rude when I ask this, but what are YOU doing? Are you texting her A LOT? Are asking her all of the time to spend time with you and go to your games? What I'm trying to say is...are you being annoying? (Just curious)
Her going to the "unimportant game" should be just as good as her going to an important game, even if you're not in it--she's being supportive for YOUR team. It's not like you're not on the team anymore, right?
Ask her whatever is on your mind...have a heart to heart conversation and see if that doesn't make things better. good luck hon.
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reader, macdubh712 +, writes (12 April 2011):
I hate to sound like Yoda, but search your feelings and find the answer to this question, you will.
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