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female
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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I want to wait until marriage to have sex. We do everything else, but want some new ideas. What are some things to do to mix it up a bit? Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 You could try outfits. Dressing up sexy always makes it far better, or try to switch up where you do things and when. Randomly start doing things one time.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 April 2011):
 What is "everything else"? You do know that oral sex, anal sex etc is sex right? If you do those things you aren't exactly waiting until marriage with sex. In addition, if the only thing you are waiting with is intercourse, then I can tell you that if you think having intercourse makes such a difference that without it you need to "mix it up" you will be disappointed. Intercourse is ONE action, albeit you can have it in many positions. But the same goes for oral sex or handjobs, you can do those in many positions as well, using many different things...
I never got bored with any sexual act in my years of being sexually active, so I don't understand what's there to be bored from? Isn't it exciting to touch, kiss, feel, enjoy each other?
Use your imagination. If you are already getting bored at 18-21 years of age your sex life will be quite dull 20 years from now. So use your imagination! Enjoy each other! But if you want to wait until marriage with sex, settle on kissing and holding hands for now. And if things get boring go out and join an activity together.
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