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*iryuu
writes: Hi Aunties,I am a sophmore. I have a boyfriend who is a Junior and i love him but... there is this guy who is a senior in highschool and he keeps on smiling at me and flirting! and he knows i have a boyfriend. Do i tell him to back off or try and ignore him?
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reader, RamAndJam +, writes (14 April 2011):
I hate to be the one to say this, but he just wants you for a piece of ass. most guys in high school are at the age where hormones are stirring up their sexual appetite. from what i read it seems as if he does not care that you have a boyfriend because he may believe he can get a FWB's and no commitment. keep what you have until you dont want it/him anymore. the grass may look greener on the otherside, but i guarantee its filled with holes and aint so pretty up close. Tell him to piss off and go on with your LIFE!
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reader, jrns96 +, writes (13 April 2011):
Don't screw up a good thing. You're happy with your junior, don't risk it all for a senior who probably wants you for your ass (forgive the language).
I'm a freshman; I'm in highschool; I'm well aware of how things work, so my answer will be blunt and realistic. And I've never been the one to give vague answers that argue both sides and leave you even more confused.
P.S. Don't let anyone tell you you are too young for a sophomore or a junior. I hate to be cliché, but love is a feeling, not a sentient being. There's no such thing as age when it comes to matters of the heart.
P.S.S. That's not to say pedophilia isn't wrong on so many levels. I recently posted an age based question, perhaps you can take a look at it?
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