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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, i just got back in a relationship with my ex who i been dating for 2 years, on and off. I really in love with him and i can't let him go for nothing in the world! It's like he got some kind of hold on me. We've been through a lot, well he put me through a lot in those 2 years. I caught him cheating on me multiples of times, he disrespects me, he lies to me, he doesn't treat me like a man should. Oh did i mention, he's 18. So we just go back together after a 4 months break-up. And now i'm just finding myself crying and worrying about this relationship. I can still see and feel that this is going to be the same roller coaster ride i been riding with him before. I don't know what to do because we don't have good communication in our relationship. When i do try to talk to him, he always ignores me or don't want to talk to me. I don't know what to do to get over him completely. It's like i can't move on. I feel like he's still cheating on me. The littlest things he suppose to do without me saying anything, causes big problems. I need help! I love this dude with all my heart and he has my heart. I just feel like there's no changing in this relationship anymore. I think it has done ran it's course but idk. Even if we break up i'm still going to want to be with him and crying over him and stuff! i don't know whats wrong with me or how can all this just fade away. I just wish he straighten up now. It's only been 2 days since we got back together, but i just see the negativity and issues already. i need some advice on this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011): Your situation sounds oddly similar to mine and my ex. we broke up and he begged for another chance to be with me after he cheated on me. he promised to change and because i love him so much i wanted to believe him. Since he betrayed me like that (same as you) even though we got back together it was never the same because i always had in the back of my mind the fears of him doing that again. not even 2 months after we got back together he did it again, then left me for that woman. im still upset about it but know im better off and will find someone who will respect me. look at it this way, youre upset now and worrying constantly anyway, and without him you might be sad but at least you can stop letting him walk all over you and disrespect you... let him go disrespect somebody else
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