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female
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30-35,
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writes:my boyfriend and i have ben dating for a whole year now. and what we have is beautiful. everything was just simply great till, from past few days he and i, have ben having some family problem/he is kinda avoiding me . because every-time he talks to me i start telling him all of my problems and how miserable my life is and how much i wana get away from my parents house. he get really annoyed and always educate me to be strong and how much stronger he is and blah blah ! i feel like i have no one to share my problems with .. i am not close to any of my friends or bestfriends instead of him . and he saying to stop complaining is just hurtfull.. yesterday he told me that he had a dream about one of his EX. and me beating her up. i was like shocked and kinda argued with him that "what sort of dream that is? you know i cant hurt someone physically?" he was like it was only a dream babe... and then things got worst .. he would say BRB in couple of hours and wouldn't show up and make silly excuses such as he was busy (i mean every excuse that he was busy ) ,.,, and now i am really confused.. i think he misses his ex ... or he is just bore of hearing all my complains and i dont entertain him or whatevea... if anyone of you have any idea whats up with him ? please tell me.. and i also think he wants me to dump him .. but he keep saying (te amo) .. its just a really confusing path for me.. HELP PLEASE !
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (12 April 2011):
 Well you're being a downer.
Next time you talk to him have something great to say.
This way you'll have to find something positive to say and that will help your mood too.
The more positive you are the happier you'll be.
The other problems exist but you don't have to exist within them.
As for the dream it may never have happened. He may have made it up just to say you lighten up your being a downer.
He is finding you threatening, so be positive, little things at first.
Best of Luck
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