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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi,i have a relationship of three years and thing have been great since.my boyfriend lives far away from me because of studies.we are close to 400km apart but we visit each other every now and the.i met a guy this year and we started as friends,he also have a girlfriend of 2 years.we were talking about each others relationships everytime,giving each other advices and all that but in the past few weeks he started making up stories trying ti stop his girlfriend from visiting.after a while he told me that he is inlove with me.we started kissing everytime we are together and he told me how much he loves me and he would secrifice his relationship with his girlfriend for me..i do love the guy but i love my boyfriend more than anything and i thought we just have feelings for each other and they were going to go away but it does not seem that way because it's been a month now and things have not changed a bit.........is it really love it's just a crush?
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reader, aaringurl  +, writes (12 April 2011):
Girl, i think you're just infatuated with the guy. Maybe because you're boyfriend is so far away and you don't see him often.
But please please, don't ever pursue that forbidden/budding relationship with that guy. If you do, you're not just destroying one relationship, but two supposedly-great ones. If you were in you're boyfriend's shoes, would like him to be cheating on you back home with another girl?? I don't think so.. Be sensitive to his feelings, and in order to make things work with you guys, you should be LOYAL to him. I know you can. ^.^
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