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writes:I bumped into this guy today, who I used to have a big crush on in my last year at school (so I was 14-15 years old at the time I liked him then, and he was a year older). He (apparently) didn't fancy me then. Well, that was what he said, but he knew I fancied him, and he used to wink at me every time he saw me around school . I was walking through the bus station today and he walked past me (we were walking in opposite directions). I said his name and asked him if he was ok. He said hi to me and said yeah he was ok. I couldn't really stop and talk to him as we were walking across the road, between the bus stands. My mum was with me, and she told me that he had turned back round to look at me. I turned back round and noticed he had too. Do you think it's possible he may have found me attractive?. I have changed in appearance in some ways since I left school. I think he will have realized who i was though, as we are on each others friends lists on Facebook, and I have photos of myself on my page. I still think he is good looking, and I really wish we had been walking in the same direction, as I might have been able to have more of a chat with him. That was the only time I have ever bumped into him since we left school. I couldn't have gone back in his direction though, as that would have looked stupid lol. What do you think about it?. If he hadn't been bothered I don't think he would have turned round to look again, do you?. I wish I could send him a quick message to say that it was nice to see him briefly today, but I feel too shy to say anything like that. I can't get him out of my mind now.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 If he turned back to look at you, I'm sure he found you attractive. If I were in his place, I would never turn around and look at someone unless there was something there.
I say you should leave him a message. Go for it!! At least you wont have any regrets about what could have been! You have nothing to lose. However, as a side note, dont make the attraction too obvious. The last thing you want is someone taking advantage of your feelings. I mean I dont know how he is, of course, I'm just saying so that you're not hurt in any way.
All the best!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): Thanks for your reply, anonymous 123. Do you think he found me attractive ?
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reader, Anonymous 123 +, writes (13 April 2011):
I think you should go ahead and send him a message. Like a casual "hi...whats up? It was nice seeing you today"...kind of a thing. Come on, there's nothing to lose here!! See what he says, ask him out for a cup of coffee, maybe.
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