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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm wondering how I can make something out of pretty much nothing. Let me give you some background information on myself. I'm 21, graduating from college in May and moving away, and am about 4 months out of a 2 year relationship. I am mostly over my ex, but am learning to be good at being alone which has included going out weekly with friends.The guy I'm interested in I have known of for two years. How? He was my TA for one of my classes, but we never spoke, and he is my age and also graduating in May. Recently at the bars we have seen each other, and we dance together every time. He kisses me on the cheek and forehead, and is just really sweet (not to mention adorable!). Then the night ends, and he gives me a big hug, and leaves. This has happened three times, and he's never asked for my number, but I feel like we have this great unspoken connection. (Maybe he doesn't want to break it? I'm afraid to, too.) We have mutual friends, but I don't talk about him to anyone. I read his blog from time to time, and I can't help but notice that we're so much alike, and I want the chance to get to know him better. He doesn't have a girlfriend, this I know for sure. I don't know what my intentions are. I just want to get to know him, and if both of our feelings are strong enough, maybe this could be more, but we're both moving away come May. I've never had a conversation with him, and I just want the chance to get to know him because I have a feeling he's amazing. How do I go about doing this next time I see him out? Is it weird for me to ask him for his number? I would rather not get mutual friends involved, and would like to do this on my own. Thank you very much ahead of time for your input and help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): You're over thinking this OP.it's not weird to ask him if he'd like to meet up sometime, so just do that. Next time you're together ask him if he'd be interested in meeting up and if he says yes then exchange numbers. That's that. Easy as pie.
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