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writes:Let me start off by saying I feel really bad about doing this but I cheated on my boyfriend cause I cybersexed another guy. He doesn't know about it and I feel really horrible about it but I don't know what to do. If to tell him or bury it. Help.We've been dating for 2 years, btw.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): Yes come clean. You need to maintain open communication in a relationship and keeping an emotion in will only draw anger and other negative emotions to you over time, especially guilt. He needs to know, absolutely, and he will be VERY pissed. Count on it. Good luck.
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reader, themagentskie +, writes (12 April 2011):
 The conscience is the death of someone. Cybersex or any form of sex affiliated act with any other person that isn't your partner is cheating. But, spare yourself a fight or break up and keep it hidden in your skeleton closet. It'll be the root of many future problems. And it might even be his hall pass to cheat on you as a form of rebelling. I don't suggest telling him. If you feel extremely guilty ; do N O T do it again.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (12 April 2011):
 I don't even know I'd consider cybersex cheating. The physical act of sex didn't happen. You were doing sexual acts on a webcam, if anything I would look at it as porn. Not that I'm trying to justify cybersex..it still wasn't entirely right because you were basically masturbating to someone who isn't your boyfriend.
I'd come clean, to clear your conscience, and because it's the right thing to do. He may or may not view it as cheating, but either way he won't be too thrilled about it.
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