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writes:Hi everyone. I want some help. I have immigrated to USA about 2 months ago. I live here with my mom, my bother and his wife. I'll call my brother's wife ABC. Me and ABC are like brother and sister and we are very good friends.Now here is what is going on. When I was not in USA, ABC used to tell me about one of her girlfriends (I will call her XYZ)who is single, very sweet in nature and a very good girl. I used to ignore it as I was in a relation that time. ABC used to tell XYZ about me too that I am coming to USA to settle here and that I am a good guy. When I came to USA, I got dumped by my girlfriend. I was in extreme grief and pain. ABC told me to be friends with XYZ. XYZ also knew by that time that my relationship was over. so ABC called XYZ to our home and told her to bring cooked beans and told her that I like them a lot. When she came, she actually had them cooked for me.Before that meeting, she had already added me on facebook herself and we started having chats.Yesterday, she invited me to go to cenema and watch a movie that is releasing in May. I have asked her for lunch/dinner and she has readily accepted it. We chat almost everyday. My question is:Is she into me? Is she interested? I like her and want someone to love me and adore me after what I have been going through for the last 2 months. What should be my reactions and actions? She calls me buddy right now and I am not a lot familiar with American culture. So I am a bit confused here whether it is just a courteous friendship or she is interested in me. All this has happened in a time of 1 week. Please give me accurate advice. I don't want to get hurt again in life nor do I want to day dream again for love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): go easy with this.
do not use her as a rebound bec 2 months is still fresh from your breakup.
she sound like a friend, a good friend in the making, who with time can become a great love.
it is all about timing.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (12 April 2011):
 Well it sounds like you are currently friends but it could easily turn into something more. If you are talking daily, going out together and she is happy to spend time with you then she definitely likes you.
I suggest that when you are out together next, ask her out properly - as in ask her to be your girlfriend. There is always a chance she might say no, that is the case with dating but you have to take chances to get anywhere in life. But from the sounds of things my guess is that she will say yes and then you can take it from there.
There is no 'accurate' advice on dating I'm afraid - love is a mysterious thing and because we are just stangers on the internet who have never seen the two of you together, we can never be 100% sure that this will all work out. But from what you have said, it sounds like she is interested and if you keep on dating her, I am sure you will end up being boyfriend and girlfriend. Just keep going out with her (just the 2 of you) and when you feel the time is right ask her to be your girlfriend.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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