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writes:i really need anyones help i could get at the moment so any comments will do. i met this guy on the internet a few weeks ago,then the other day i asked for his age,turns out he's 18! so i told im 15,but really im 13! then we've been talking so much and we both like each other so much and im meeting him in 2 weeks. he really dosnt look 18 but iv spoke to some of his mates and they are aswell. he told me he likes me and dosnt want to be messed about,but what am i meant to do? i could be getting him classed as a pedophile,i really dont want to tell him as it would brake are friendship and everything we could of had in the future! HELP ME ANYONE?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (12 April 2011):
 Sounds like your parents need to be placing some parental locks on your computer.
Everything you could have in the future that will be based off of lies. Not a good way to start out the future is it?
Let me put it this way, you are 13, still a minor. He is well over the legal age and is considered an adult. So yes you would be getting him classified as a pedophile, sex offender. He thinks you're 15 nearing 16 so that's why he's talking to you. You knew that if you told him your real age it would never work.
Not to mention, you're meeting this guy off of the internet so you could be placing yourself in a dangerous setting. People aren't always who they appear to be on the computer screen.
I will tell you, your lie will only last so long before he finds out. So to make things right before you're in over your head, I suggest you come clean and tell him your real age over the computer. Knock off the online dating because you're way too young for that, and stick with the boys in school.
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reader, macdubh712 +, writes (12 April 2011):
Just imagine how selfish it would be of you if you two started having sex (it happens, quick, fast, and in a hurry and you don't want to stop after it starts) and he had no idea that you were 13. If he got caught, you're right, he would be crucified. British law and American are similar in many ways (that's where we got it from!). I know in America, the blame will most likely be placed on the boy. That's really screwed up. I think you just cut your losses and find someone you know is closer to your age
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reader, themagentskie +, writes (12 April 2011):
 He could be lying just as you are. No, no, no.
How to Catch a Predator much?
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