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writes:Do I deserve a girl who loves me as much as I love her?Recently, I started to question myself whether I deserve a girl who loves me. I know I am young; I know I should focus on academics even though I am pretty good; I know teenage love is difficult; but my confidence has started to fade away.During past two years, I met a great girl who have changed my life, however, she has also started to ruin my life due a reason that I don't even know. She knows that I love her but she still chose to hurt me by 'accident', which is something that I don't know how to face. I understand I should move on and disconnect from her, however, I don't have the courage to do it again. I have done it in the past, but I can't persuade myself to do it again.I was there for her when she got dump,I was there for her when she was upset because the guy didn't ask her out...Last week, I sent her a goodbye letter because I was stupid enough to think it was the best for me to stand up for myself. From Business perspective, I want some bargain power. But she came back and kind of took revenge: she said to me that I made her scared because I stared at her too much. I simply didn't recognize that, at that moment I really wanted to tell her to fu** off but due to I love her. I walked away.I know I have portrayed her as a horrible girl in here but she is a very nice,clever and beautiful girl. Strangely, I love the way it hurts. Btw, here is the link for the goodbye letter: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-written-a-goodbye-letter-to-a.html
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (16 April 2011):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know but anyway thanks for your help.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (15 April 2011):
You should realize you have to stop loving her already.
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (15 April 2011):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear Capri2,She used to be a good person but now a bad person, who hurts a lot after all the things I have done for her. If I didn't love her I would basically blacklist her.83puremage1
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reader, Capri2 +, writes (15 April 2011):
I will tell you what a good person is: it's someone who, even without caring for you, won't hurt.
A bad person is someone who, even when is supposed to care for you, will hurt you.
You tell me which kind of person she is.
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (14 April 2011):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for you guys support and I written the letter while I was crying.
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reader, wolfred bane  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 i realy realy feel for you.i seriously almost cried. i was in there before. you more than deserve her. seriously. i can tell you are a really great guy.
what ever you do, i am with you all the way. you are not alone. good luck and stay strong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): Shes thrown you into the friend zone dude, get out. Quickly.
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reader, Capri2 +, writes (13 April 2011):
She's playing with you big time. She uses you and you seem to be right in the friend zone. You are right, you should date a girl who loves you back. Not her (even when I guess you aren't dating her at all).
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