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writes:iv currently just finished my boyfriend,we've been together 3 months,he treated me like i was nothing and wanted to date 3 other girls while he was with me,i don't know what to do,this would be my 3rd time with him again and i don't think it really sounds right,i don't want to be treated like that again but i love him,can anyone help?
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (12 April 2011):
 If you have split up 3 times in 3 months - THIS IS NOT WORKING!!! The first few months of the relationship should be the happiest and the easiest, if you are already off and on again so frequently then this is simply not meant to be.
He sounds like a jerk anyway, so find some self-respect and dont go running back to him. You might think you love him, but after 3 months when you are not even together for all of that time - that is not love, I promise. If you just stay away from him for a couple of months I promise you, you will have forgotten all about him and you will be able to move on.
An ex is an ex for a reason - NEVER go back there. He doesnt treat you right, so forget about him and find someone that will treat you right. Yes it might hurt for a while and you will be sad - that is totally normal. So allow yourself a bit of time to be sad, have a cry and in a couple of months you will be feeling back to normal again.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (12 April 2011):
 Sometimes we don't get the lesson.
So we jump back in throw our emotions around, love and hate until CLICK the light goes on and the lesson is learned.
Could be you have jealousy issues and you find it easy to approach these issues with this fella. Could be he likes the colour of hair and he needs to realize that it's really your sense of humor.
Jumping back into the love pot can burn us again and again but eventually we get the recipe right.
Either it gets fixed with this one or it gets fixed with another one.
Eventually it will get fixed. That's why I really appreciate people who jump into love again. They really want to get fixed, probably why it's called Fixed Up.
We are brave souls aren't we?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): its actually funny how the girls can be, I was a bad boy too and wouldnt care how the girls would feel or even care about them, but still they would be lined up and wanted to be with me, and when i fell inlove with this girl and wanted to be all hers, u know what happens!! she breaks my heart and leaves me,
so yea no matter what we do with you girls, its a problem, thats why we prefer to keep our pride by being an ass***** . atleast it doesnt hurt us., its selfish yea but its better than gettin hurt,
im sorry im writing this but im really heart broken and i need to get back to my normal life, else id go crazy
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reader, themagentskie  +, writes (12 April 2011):
 I was in the same boat as you. Honestly, hold your guard. Chances are, he's gonna date somebody else real soon. He's a serial dater. If he didn't appreciate you from the start, your just a pass time. My ex would keep coming back to me, but his actions proved to me he just didn't really care much. Either you can give it another try or see next month or even week how his Facebook status changes.
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