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anonymous
writes:Im almost twenty, and ive had many opportunites to have sex and hook up. For some reason, ive just chosen not to do any of that. I havent really dated that much because i like being single. But now im ready for a relationship or a fling but im really hesitant because i have never fooled around with anyone. Guys have done stuff to me before, but ive never given a handjob or blowjob before. I dont want to end up being really bad at it, especially if its with someone i like. Any tips?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): If you don't mind me saying, the world is so concerned with 'fooling around,' as if it is a good thing to do. Truth is it is not pleasant unless you are with the one you love and there is not such a thing as practice or being 'good at it' the most important thing is that you are both comfortable together as people and want to be together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): You sound like me, before I met my current boyfriend. A penis is pretty easy to manoeuver; whatever you do to him will most likely feel really good. The head and the balls are the most sensitive parts so it is best to focus on those areas. You could also ask him what he likes/how he wants it, that usually works because it makes him feel in control and the dirty talk makes you feel naughty.The key is to just have fun with it. Don't think too much. And just let your instincts take over.
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