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writes:how much time, under normal circumstances,c an a guy last when having sex in the first round? Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (15 October 2012):
 Do you want to know how much they CAN last or how much they SHOULD last ?
There are stats for both.
How much they CAN actually last , surprisingly is not much . 3 to 7 minutes ( penetration only , forepley not included ).
How much they SHOULD last ideally , according to researchers of Behrendt Institute of Erie in Pennsylvania, et al. : 11 minutes.Since the most desired length of intercourse has been indicated between 7 and 13 minutes. Anything under 3 minutes, don't even bother. Anything over 15 minutes, it may become painful/ boring.
Of course these are just stats , and stats have often a way of.... having nothing to do with real life,plus they were taken from a sample of women that was rather large, but by no mean representative of ALL the women in the world.
As other posters said, this is something you'll have to work out on a case- to- case basis. Some women like it passionate, fast and furious and 5 minutes will be enough, some would not even bother to undress themselves for less than 30 minutes. AND it also varies according to moods and occasions : sometimes people just want to get to a physical release as fast as they can, other times they want to take their time and prologe the act as much as possible.
Conclusion : you'll have to play it by ear :)
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reader, Young Soul  +, writes (15 October 2012):
From my point of view, i would say it depends on the individual since we all have different sex drives. Some can go the long journey and others a shorter period. So anyway you have it, you need to appreciate it.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 That depends on how fast you do it, for how long you've been having foreplay, how many breaks you take etc.
I say on average between 2-10 minutes. Preferably 20-30 minutes, but not more than 30. After 30 minutes most women get tired. But it really depends on what type of sex you are having! If you want just a quicky the guy needs to come within 1-4 minutes. If you want long and passionate sex, 30 minutes or longer is better, provided the woman is lubricated enough and you take it very slow.
This is just on average though, the world records are different, although I don't know the facts on that. A guy CAN last longer on the first round (maybe hours), I guess that is completely up to the individual. A guy CAN last shorter, say half a minute on the first round. I've had both versions happening.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): This is a really good question!
it depends on the individual!
Sometimes a quicky is the best (5 mins tops) Because its like you just cant keep your hands off each other and the passion is enough to compensate for the quickness.
Other times (such as in bed at night and other normal cicumstances) 15-20 mins is a good amount of time!! make sure you swap positions a few times or it will get boring (for both of you!)
And other times all night sessions are good!! When your both completely into it and loving it, just hours of messing around, going slow then fast then swap positions, mixing it up between oral sex, intercourse, masturbation, all of it for hours ;)
you just need to see what kind of mood you are both in at the time :) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): Every guy is different and every woman likes different amount of time. In my experience 15-20 minutes is the ideal. Any longer and the girl can get bored and/or sore. Any shorter and she may not be satisfied but then again I dated girls that liked sex to be hard and fast. 5 minutes tops any longer and they got bored. I dated other girls that thought anything less then 40 minutes was too fast.
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