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Does he still care about me or is he just scared of commiting himself to a family?

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Question - (11 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2011)
A female Australia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My ex and I broke up 5 months ago, we have a baby together, he just started seeing someone else in the last month. But things between us never seem to be finished. Lately I have been sending him pics of myself, with him encouraging more of them. He has told me he wants to sleep with me so bad, but doesn't want to cheat, but funny thing is, he already has in a way, we played around with ourselves, watching each other, but since we didn't touch each other he thinks its ok.

He is always calling me and giving me hugs, his family have.told.me his new relationship won't last and he will coke back to his family. Does he.still care about me cause I get the feeling he does.but is just scared of committing himself to u family. I am still in love with him

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A female reader, Buzzi Nigeria +, writes (11 April 2011):

Buzzi agony auntHe likes you but he's having a problem making decisions just play along,dont have sex with him yet, control your feelings when with him. When the urge comes so high and he misses you so much he will come back crawling.

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A female reader, secret mum  Australia +, writes (11 April 2011):

He obviously does have feelings for u still, otherwise why else would he want to be intimate when he has a girlfriend. My advice is to play along with it, keep sending him pics, flirting and whatever, no doubt it will end in sex lol, and I think soon enough he will realise he is missing u and come back, just be patient,.least u have his family on Ur side

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A female reader, here_2_help United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2011):

here_2_help agony auntWith a baby in the world you are always going to have to know this man, but the question is: Do you want him because he is the father of your child or do you still love him?

It sounds like he is confused and does not know what he wants, but he still has feelings for you or he wouldn't want the hugs amd the close contact.

It's your desision to make for you and your baby, what ever will make you feel happy and right you should go for!

Hope this helps

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