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writes:Hi,Why is my ex girlfriend so cold? She told me she had feelings for me and then became an iceberg. She says she needs a month...does that mean she wasn't telling me the truth about loving me? I don't see how people could just switch their feelings like that.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (12 April 2011):
 Do yourself a favor and don't try to understand this. You will get a headache as big as Jupiter and will still be in the dark about why, oh why, this happened. Just give her space, but do it forever. Make no mistake: she doesn't want you. Just leave and find someone else. Sounds easy, I know, but these are the bare facts.
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reader, tby1  +, writes (12 April 2011):
 my x and me broke up some time toward end of last year cos of trust issues i caused. ive said all along she loves me still and always will, i just know this to be true, even thou she always said i was wrong, then in feb this year she started inviting me round to see the kids etc but really she wanted some proper loving. after 3 weeks of everyday and everyway sex she looked like she was about to say something, so i quizzed her, she said nothing, i dont wanna mess your head up again, i said just say it, she said you was right all along, i do love you and always have etc. since that last session ive not seen her properly or the kids, she is distant and made it clear were not getting back together. my view on this and same to yours is they know they love you, but are so scared of being hurt or made a fool of again that they push you away, far away or have no contact to tell themselves they was wrong. maybe im wrong but i doubt it
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reader, based51  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Maybe she loves you but doesn't want to. Maybe she's taking time away to think if you're really what she wants. This sounds likely to be honest.
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