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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been having long distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We love each other so much. Both of our parents also agree with our relationship.Otherwise,sometimes I feel that it's too hard for me to keep go on with this relationship ( I've been with my ex boyfriend for 4 years which is also long distance relationship).He ever said to me that maybe my life will be so hard because he will going to continue his family business, bakery shop. My relatives often tell me that it's so hard to live with him later and they believe that I can't handle that. I know that many of them feel pity on me and think that I will have a hard journey with him.Moreover, he said that he'll going to take a hospitality subject again to improve his skills and create opportunities to do other business and it again takes 2 years long distance relationship.Sometimes I felt that I'm so lonely and feel meaningless when he is apart with me and getting jealous with my friends who have their own couple and happy relationship. He is too serious in study and he's not too romantic either. But I still love him so much. I don't know why I feel that he's the right guy and future husband for me and my children.I'm so stress out thinking whether I must keep on this relationship or what? Maybe that's my destiny to always have long distance relationship:(Please,anyone can give me suggestion or opinion to my problems?Thanks before guys:)
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reader, BeckieYMA6 +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Have you actually met him? You didn't mention it...If you havn't, then i would just leave it, if you havn't met by now, then you are having a pretty much pointless relationship.He could be completely different when you meet him, you may not even like him!Having a long distance, is obviously getting you down, so why carry on with it?The whole point of a relationship is that you love spending time together, and you guys never do, so how can you be sure you really love this person?and not just what he's tying, or saying over the internet or whatever.
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