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He cheated and came back to give me a STD, should I tell the other girl?

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Question - (11 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay so I've been dating this guy for 10 months and I fell in Love with him because he took my virginity and I couldn't dream of being with no one else. Recently he cheated and Came Back and Gave me an Std ... and Left me For a Girl I Know. I was So upset and she keeps braging about how she took him from me. I'm so mad but I'm wondering if I should tell her he has a STD . I Know it would be the right thing to do but she such a B**** So what should I do? I'm still hurting from the break up and she's just making it worse

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (11 April 2011):

Honeypie agony auntI agree that the right thing would be to tell her. Honestly I would do it anonymous. Tell her to go get checked for XYZ STD. And leave it at that.

Sorry hun, you didn't lose anything to her but a loser.

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A female reader, unknownreader United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2011):

unknownreader agony aunt Is the girl you know an old friend or ?

The right thing to do would be to tell her, so she can then protect herself from being in this position. If then she doesn't believe you, you have done all that you can do. At least in this situation, if it came out that you knew he had an std people can not talk about you for not telling her.

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A female reader, cocktailprincess United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2011):

cocktailprincess agony auntIf your boyfriend cares about you. He wouldn't of done that to you and he wouldn't allow the other girl to make you feel like that. I know this is probably not something you want to hear but you can do so much better than that and when you find it you will wonder why you bothered with him in the first place. thats what happened to me.

as for the STD I would tell this girl even if she is being a B**** because 1. you are being the bigger person. and 2. It will knock her down a peg or two and she will probably not know what to do or say xx good luck xx

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