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female
age
26-29,
*riBri
writes: I need help Please!Okay i have a friend he is really sweet i flirt with him some but he doesnt see it. I really like him and he's really cool. I have been thinking about seeing if he likes me but dont what to do or how to do it. I really like him but i am scared if anybody found out i might be teased forever.And plus one of my friends likes im too. But i dont know i need help figuring this out. Please help me!!:((
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reader, BriBri +, writes (15 June 2012):
BriBri is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI thank all of you for your honest opinions and it turns out the male reader was right. He liked me but he didnt think he wanted to ruin our relationship so we didnt get together and when we were going to he moved but were still friends no matter what which was enough for me (:
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (12 April 2011):
I understand how you feel. Trust me, it won't be like that forever. Pretty soon, the people around you get more mature and it's going to be just fine if people know who you like.
Guys your age are, well, a little oblivious. You may have to hit him over the head with the fact that you like him if you want him to know. Do you think he might like you back? Do you think that even if he only likes you as a friend, he'll be mature about it and you two will be able to keep your friendship? If you think so, you may want to tell him you like him. Maybe start by flirting a bit more (keep it tasteful) or seeing if he wants to hang out just the two of you some time.
Best of Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): He probably will see it, but he will think to himself that he is imagining it. If he feels the same way as you do you are both wasting your time, you should try talking to him seriously and not in a joking tone about how you feel about him and see his reaction and feelings. I'm 16 and a guy, hope this helps ;)
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