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He tells me I should understand him. He promises not to leave. I don't know what to think. Help.

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Question - (11 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2011)
A female Nigeria age 30-35, *irlord writes:

A guy proposed to me, but before i answered, i asked him if he had a girl friend. He told me that it doesn't depend on the girl friend one has but someone's choice, and that I am his choice.

He said he had had many experience with women so therefore decided to go for a young girl. I agreed later on. As times goes on. A woman do come to his office so I ask who it is, he told me he just help her on a particular issue, later I got to know that she was her fiance but they aren't married.

All he always tells me is that I should please understand him. And he promise not to leave me. Have been dating him for over 8 months now. But the reason why I am disturbed is that I saw a lot of love messages which was sent to him from different ladies and those ones he sent back. Am worried because he has never sent any strong love message to me.

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A female reader, Airlord Nigeria +, writes (12 April 2011):

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Airlord agony auntWell i'll rather say, he loves u, so far u are young and his fiance is old , I think no man will leave a young girl and go for the old one. Whenever a man tells a lady to understand him, such guy really wanna have something to do with u. Just be patience and understand him. If u really love him, show him love concern and patience. A woman who wants to enjoy a man and wanna have him forever must be patience, have good behaviour and be respectful.Don't worry, luck is on ur side.

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