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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi all I'm recently feeling vexed over a guy! He's been courting me for a few months and even though initially I wasn't interested, I was finally beginning to be touched by his words. And for a moment, I really considered his friend's advise on dating him. On Saturday, he just told me he missed me but on Sunday, he decided not to interact with me anymore and to give ourselves both sometime. The reason was because he was running for a leadership position and apparently seniors who heard about him courting me had a bad impression of him (I'm older by a year but it's almost taboo in my school). Since he wanted to win their votes, he decided the best option was to stop contact with me. Whatever happened to love conquers all?? I felt so hurt and disappointed and suddenly he just reminds me of my terrible ex. What should I do? Any advice would be appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Talk to him and tell him how you feel. You say it has only been a couple of months and in these months you have had your doubts therefore he may not be completely sure how you feel about him or what you want. Talk to him and tell him exactly how this has made you feel and how hurt you are over it.
It is very unfair of him to treat you like this. Give him a chance to explain and see what he has got to say for himself. I guess that this leadership position is more important to him than you are and I guess that it is something you need to accept. But talk to him first and show him how you are feeling. Goodluck.
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