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writes:It may be a tad long but i just came on here for some advice or insight please! Anything that will help make sense!? Here goes, call me stupid or naive since i know you don't know the guy or me, but if you can make out these actions.. Great! I asked this question about a month ago if you read it, this might make more sense.... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-does-this-good-looking-guy-at-the.htmlAnyways, so that was what happened last summer. Recently I rejoined this year and i see him again but he doesn't do that anymore (the trying to be closer to wherever i am, stopping and just blatant staring for ages, or hiding behind the door). Instead, when he sees me he looks at me for a few seconds and carries on. Sometimes, I catch him looking back at me when i have gone past him. Or when he has seen me sign in, about a few minutes later i'll see him walk into the main gym room and go to the desk or staff room! I guess these could be coincidences... But it's as if now he is trying to play hard to get and seem as though he isn't interested. Which yeah, he might probably not be? But then i feel that he is into me. Cause what hasn't changed from last year is when both our eyes meet there is this tension between us. Or something there that makes me feel uncomfortable but attracted at same time? When i see him looking at me, it's hard to describe but it's this pensive look?I don't understand what is going on here? Is he still attracted to me, what is he thinking or is it really nothing?Be honest as you like haha... Oh and thanks for taking the time to read this and if so answer!! :) Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Here's the thing, we're NOT mind readers..so we can't tell you what he is thinking, or if he is indeed attracted to you. Staring/glancing isn't enough to tell if someone likes you or not.
Instead of staring back, or go another month wondering what he is thinking, why don't you actually speak to him and ask if he would like to get a bite to eat after he gets off of work? By interacting with and actually talking to him, you can use your own judgement to see if he's into you or not.
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reader, thomas1214  +, writes (11 April 2011):
i think he is trying to get over what happened between you two. and maybe you should do the same as well.
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