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writes:It's been a year and a half since my ex and I broke up, and I'm still not over him. He was my first everything, first real boyfriend, first guy I had sex with, first love. The only reason we broke up was because he moved away to a different country. We tried long distance for half a year, but when we realised we didn't know when we were going to see each other again, we called it quits. We still keep in contact and speak several times a week. I think he still has feelings for me but I can't be sure. I plan on moving to the same country he is in in a few months time, so I guess I'm hoping we might pick up where we left off. I have been with other guys after him, but none of them have been serious, and I can't stop thinking about him. Am I just torturing myself by holding out for him, thinking that one day we might be together again? Should I just try forget him or do you think my hoping won't be in vain? Help!
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 well i know for a fact cypriots marry their first,true love :)
I am guessing he went to college in the UK and you're in Cyprus?
Well i am sure once you go there everything will be back to normal.
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reader, Angellove  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Hi gal... If you plan to move to the same country where he is,then I think you should let him know this and have a word with him regarding you two getting back together before moving der. By doing this you will know whether he still has feelings for you and whats in his mind. According to the response you get, you will then be able to figure out urself what is betta, as in, if he says that he too would not mind getting back and still feels for you and is happy that you will be moving to the place where he is, dan yeah you should go for it BUT if he has other plans and is not at all wanting to get back or have a serious relation dan you should let go and not even think of moving to the place where he lives, coz by doin dat ul jus torture urself..... Hope this helps :) Good luck hun, hope you get a positive response from him and what u wish for :)
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