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writes:how can a boy like a girl and suddenly cnage their mind for no reason? Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 People can change their minds at any age, but with teenager that happens a lot- basically inevitable.
They have not had the time and experience to decide what they really want in terms of partners and relationships, so they want...everything. Kid in the candy store syndrome :). Today they like you ,a brunette, but, tomorrow, they'll prefer blonde girls. They want a tomboy that can playfight and watch sports with them, no, actually they want a girlie girl who reads fashion magazines. Or maybe a quiet, studious geekette. No, a tattoed metal babe is better...
Don't feel bad, it happens a lot. The only trick is trying to enjoy the good moments without getting too attached .
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reader, Odds  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Minds can just change. It happens. Love is a bunch of funny chemicals in our brains that make us act like idiots. Infatuation is that, but more heavily front-loaded and with a harsh crash at the end. And at your age, infatuation is a lot more likely than anything else.
Let it go, it's not your fault, or his.
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reader, amazingk +, writes (11 April 2011):
 There's always a reason for the behavior. Whether or not they'll clue you in on what that reason is is another story...
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reader, Batterytea  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Oh my god, I asked myself the exact same question a while ago. It just seemed over night he'd gone from loving me to dumping me out of the blue.
But I've actually experienced sudden love dying too. It just happens. They can't control it. Let it be.
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (11 April 2011):
At your age, don't expect anything to be serious or long lasting in the love department.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (11 April 2011):
 It's really based on him liking one girl for one reason and not as a collective person so when he finds something else that catches his eye he goes for that instead. It sucks but it is unavoidable at that age. Both boys and girls do this, some for many more years to come. The important thing to remember is that not all boys will be like this.
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