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He says he loves me but cannot marry me

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Question - (11 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2011)
A female India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i am a traditional orthodox indian girl who was never in a relationship before, now from past 2 year i met a guy and both were truely in love. i have not revealed this with anyone nor he. now his parents are forcing him to get married then i raised the question of marrying me. he said directly i cannot marry you and my parents wont agree as ours is different caste. i begged him but his decision has not changed. i am not able to forget him, we were also in a physical relationship. he just says i love u but really cannot marry.... what should i do?????????

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (11 April 2011):

raiders agony auntSadly you have to end this relationship. You already know he is not going to marry you so in reality there is no future in this relationship. Leave him cold turkey and do not give him any sexual favors again.

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A male reader, welsh United States +, writes (11 April 2011):

End the relationship. Sorry to say this, but you were just a physical option for him and now he is going with what his parents want.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (11 April 2011):

Honeypie agony auntEnd the relationship. It will only lead to more heartbreak if it continues since he WILL most likely have to marry the girl his parents have chosen.

He obvioulsy either doesn't love you enough to defy his parents or he is very traditional?

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